Archive for Fabulous Women

Sex and the Confident Woman

Had enough? Fed up? Told you aren't smart enough or good enough? Time to get your power back! For too long women have given power to men because they just "have to have" a guy and then they become people pleasers or doormats or pregnant. Whatever it takes, they do it. And in the process, they don't even realize they are losing all that makes a woman attractive. That magic is gone when you throw yourself at a guy or do whatever he asks. If you take yourself out of the game everyone else Read more [...]

Urban Cougar Dos and Don’ts

If you want to be a classy cougar, then you could do worse than follow these tips: Do Do be an independent woman. Believe in yourself and feel confident. Do dress in sexy clothes, but make sure you are still classy. Flash either arms, legs or chest, not all three. Do go after what you want Do be open minded and willing to try new things, adventures will keep you young Do look after your body. Stay healthy and look good. Don't Don't feel embarrassed just because Read more [...]

Why Independence Is Attractive In A Woman

As a woman who's experienced her fair share of personal tragedy and failed relationships, I feel very strongly that a woman should be completely independent of her man. I don't mean that you should never let a man do anything for you. Independence to me means being able to take care of my own needs in a healthy manner, with or without a man. Independence promotes self-worth and self-esteem. It also gives you the confidence to walk away from an unfulfilling or abusive relationship. Healthy, Read more [...]

Cougars: Connecting Without a Connection

Did anyone really think the sexual revolution was over? Here we are in the new millennium and sex is just as hot and heavy as it was in the 1960s. With the advent of the female cougar, the revolution has merely changed its form. We've had the hippies, the swingers, the swappers, "the cared for" other woman, and now the allure of the cougar. ON THE PROWL The phrase “cougar” symbolizes the prowling nature of this nocturnal female. She is on the hunt for the younger, more youthful, fancy-free Read more [...]

Ladies, Are You A Cougar?

According to Wikipedia the slang word "Cougar" is used to describe an older woman who prefers to date men at least 5 years their junior.  Dr. Joyce Brothers notes that women don't reach their sexual peak until their mid-thirties and sometimes older. Therefore, they are perfectly matched with a younger man who has more sexual vigor. Women today are taking care of themselves and often looking for younger men who can keep up with them. Calling a woman a Cougar was initially an insult that meant Read more [...]

Exercise – The Discount Store is My Walking Track

I live in Minnesota, a beautiful state with extreme weather changes. In the winter the temperature can plunge to 30 below zero. In the summer it can shoot into the 90s or even 100. Even though I wear a wide-brimmed straw hat and sunscreen, it is hard for me to walk in such heat. My solution is to walk the perimeter of a local discount store. It is huge. I like the air conditioned environment and looking at the merchandise. But I do not walk around the store the same way I walk in my Read more [...]

Where Did All the Glamorous Women Go?

Not since the days of Audrey Hepburn has Hollywood radiated like it used to from the aura of glamorous women. The world is filled with beautiful women today, but rarely anymore do you walk into a jewelry store and find yourself drawn to the glamour of the creature trying on diamonds. A pretty woman makes you smile and check out their physique but a glamorous woman commands your respect and admiration. The Merriam-Webster dictionary defines glamorous as excitingly attractive. The key Read more [...]

Ashton and Demi: A Giant Step for Older Women?

So, Ashton Kucher, 27, and Demi Moore, 43, got married with her kids and ex-husband in attendance. Hollywood ho-hum? Made in heaven? Bizarre? Insane? A giant step for older women? How about "A giant step for older women." Well, almost. It's not unusual for older female celebrities to hook up with much younger men. Fame and fortune are powerful magnets. But men are visual creatures. What happens after the beauty fades? Not to worry. Loss of a youthful appearance is no longer Read more [...]